Akwoi woni magana
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Posted Jul 5, 2009 at 08:40 PM by emj
For very matured minds only.....thanks.
I was reasoning/discussing with some younger friends of mine. One has been married for 2years and has been very sexually active with her husband and they really do understand each other. I've visited with them several times and had seen in them some traits that i use to have too when i was a young bride...so i've learnt to give them space when i notice some signs(interesting ones).
They are so into each other that u will but admire them for it.
Whilst the rest are just getting to know and understand me more.
We got talking of recent about stuff. We do discuss just about anything...no holds Barr....and they know that i dont mind one bit.
EA is pregnant with a child and she's in the 1st trimester...about 3mths gone, and her sex drive is just out of this world....we were discussing about how safe it is to have sex during pregnancy.
http://www.monstersandcritics.com/ne...rm_the_foetus_
Even as i blog about this, i will advise that u consult your Doctor/Gyn about how much and how far u can go with having sex whilst pregnant as each person is different.
So i shared some of my very interesting experience with them. Some of us are wired differently....some suffer from morning sickness for a very long time and you might even find yourself crying for no reason at all...my late spouse is one of those men who study his wife closely and can tell what i want without me saying a word. We experimented, consulted with our Doctor and read up on what we can and cannot do, but all in all understood each other and were able to meet most needs.
As the pregnancy develops, you notice new challenges and with patience and understanding are able to overcome and make each other happy......do whatever floats each other's boat ....we did till the day the baby arrived.
It is very important that you take good care of your grooming during pregnancy...not let go, eat well(if u can keep the food down, i couldnt, and i had wacky cravings), dress well(he did most of my shopping, bought what he and i like to be seen in....and still got some out of this world sexy night slips)....your husband is used to your body and where there's love will get use to the changes.....be careful not to become too sloppy.
http://www.simplysassylingerie.com/t...c1kvvom5osn4h3
http://www.isabellaoliver.com/matern...0/P/4:100:1020
You can adopt various positions and styles of making love, your partner shld be able to flow with u....holding hands, cuddling, robbing her back really helps.....a lot of women are more horny than others...there's nothing wrong with that...and if you have the whole house to yourself can scuba dive anywhere anytime.
Postnatal Sex.....it all depends on how well u heal and also boils down to u understanding your body.......2wks after isnt that early, except if you did not have natural birth and also had some sutures .......consult with your physician and gradually get your partner back into ur arms......this is crucial as some men gradually lose interest when u concentrate more on the child and dont even look their way
My young friends and i had a very hilarious and swell time discussing this and am sure their husbands will be more happy getting more nooky with a more relaxed wife and friend.
To The Husbands
Learn to understand your wife and ask for direction when in doubt....yes she's pregnant not infectious.....you're both going to bring a beautiful child into the world...let the child learn from the love that flows through u....love your wife and try to understand her body and watch the changes......dont get nor feel too frustrated with her to the point of abandoning her at home and hanging out with someone else just becos she's too blow up to be of any interest to u.
PS>>>>.....when in doubt, consult ur physician.
http://www.babycenter.com/sex-during-pregnancy-overview
http://community.babycenter.com/post...ring_pregnancy
I was reasoning/discussing with some younger friends of mine. One has been married for 2years and has been very sexually active with her husband and they really do understand each other. I've visited with them several times and had seen in them some traits that i use to have too when i was a young bride...so i've learnt to give them space when i notice some signs(interesting ones).
They are so into each other that u will but admire them for it.
Whilst the rest are just getting to know and understand me more.
We got talking of recent about stuff. We do discuss just about anything...no holds Barr....and they know that i dont mind one bit.
EA is pregnant with a child and she's in the 1st trimester...about 3mths gone, and her sex drive is just out of this world....we were discussing about how safe it is to have sex during pregnancy.
http://www.monstersandcritics.com/ne...rm_the_foetus_
Even as i blog about this, i will advise that u consult your Doctor/Gyn about how much and how far u can go with having sex whilst pregnant as each person is different.
So i shared some of my very interesting experience with them. Some of us are wired differently....some suffer from morning sickness for a very long time and you might even find yourself crying for no reason at all...my late spouse is one of those men who study his wife closely and can tell what i want without me saying a word. We experimented, consulted with our Doctor and read up on what we can and cannot do, but all in all understood each other and were able to meet most needs.
As the pregnancy develops, you notice new challenges and with patience and understanding are able to overcome and make each other happy......do whatever floats each other's boat ....we did till the day the baby arrived.
It is very important that you take good care of your grooming during pregnancy...not let go, eat well(if u can keep the food down, i couldnt, and i had wacky cravings), dress well(he did most of my shopping, bought what he and i like to be seen in....and still got some out of this world sexy night slips)....your husband is used to your body and where there's love will get use to the changes.....be careful not to become too sloppy.
http://www.simplysassylingerie.com/t...c1kvvom5osn4h3
http://www.isabellaoliver.com/matern...0/P/4:100:1020
You can adopt various positions and styles of making love, your partner shld be able to flow with u....holding hands, cuddling, robbing her back really helps.....a lot of women are more horny than others...there's nothing wrong with that...and if you have the whole house to yourself can scuba dive anywhere anytime.
Postnatal Sex.....it all depends on how well u heal and also boils down to u understanding your body.......2wks after isnt that early, except if you did not have natural birth and also had some sutures .......consult with your physician and gradually get your partner back into ur arms......this is crucial as some men gradually lose interest when u concentrate more on the child and dont even look their way
My young friends and i had a very hilarious and swell time discussing this and am sure their husbands will be more happy getting more nooky with a more relaxed wife and friend.
To The Husbands
Learn to understand your wife and ask for direction when in doubt....yes she's pregnant not infectious.....you're both going to bring a beautiful child into the world...let the child learn from the love that flows through u....love your wife and try to understand her body and watch the changes......dont get nor feel too frustrated with her to the point of abandoning her at home and hanging out with someone else just becos she's too blow up to be of any interest to u.
PS>>>>.....when in doubt, consult ur physician.
http://www.babycenter.com/sex-during-pregnancy-overview
http://community.babycenter.com/post...ring_pregnancy
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Posted Jul 5, 2009 at 09:56 PM by Auspicious
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Posted Jul 6, 2009 at 02:08 AM by emj










