Dating in the NVS
Posted Jun 9, 2009 at 03:30 PM by shinycoin
Hhmm, what am wondering is why we have not had other Shoko-Mulan 2009 on this site.
NVS is a haven and melting pot of some really beautiful, intelligent, single and available young women, mixed in with good looking, well behaved and hard working, eligible young Nigerian men, so what is stopping more romance from forging on and relationships from waxing strong?
I know there are several dating scenes out there and some of us belong to several of them. I should know because not too long ago, i used to belong to match.com, eharmony.com, meetnigeriansingles.com, ebonysingles.com,nigeriansingles.com,christiansing les.com
Infact, i have posted my profile on so many such single and dating sites that i've even forgotten my password to some of these sites and i know the same applies to some villagers here, even if some people would rather die than admit it.....hhmmm.
What i find most interesting though is that, of all of these sites, the NVS is the only site you can interact freely and openly and all for free.
Here you meet very intelligent and well spoken Nigerians who share similar passions and dreams with you.
We have several forums that aid in connecting similar minded people, from Single and loving it... to Relationship Avenue, from NVS bloggers forum, to poem lovers corner, to football fantasia to book lovers corner, name it we have it and we have some of the best minds, male and female interacting on these forums, sharing ideas, information, jokes, tips and snippets of their lives, and yet, yet we have so little evidence of ongoing romance and relationships.
I recently met a beautiful lady who said i should not call it hook-up, that it sounds derogatory, so i prefer to say connect, more people should connect socially and hopefully take it to the next level.
I know we have some NVS aunties here who would be only too happy to scoop out the person of interest and give all the advice and counsel for a successful mating and matching detail, we also have some experienced ladies that would vouch for some of our members here, so abeg, dear villagers, especially our sistahs, make una take am easy on our brodahs, showing interest in you, ease up a little bit, give him a chance, let him prove himself and show you how sincere he is.
Same goes for our men too, make una open up and be honest and down to earth. I have met some really beautiful women on this site and i know they're interested, but us guys have to lead and take the bull by the horn.
Seriously, we need more Shoko-Mulan 2009.
NVS is a haven and melting pot of some really beautiful, intelligent, single and available young women, mixed in with good looking, well behaved and hard working, eligible young Nigerian men, so what is stopping more romance from forging on and relationships from waxing strong?
I know there are several dating scenes out there and some of us belong to several of them. I should know because not too long ago, i used to belong to match.com, eharmony.com, meetnigeriansingles.com, ebonysingles.com,nigeriansingles.com,christiansing les.com
Infact, i have posted my profile on so many such single and dating sites that i've even forgotten my password to some of these sites and i know the same applies to some villagers here, even if some people would rather die than admit it.....hhmmm.
What i find most interesting though is that, of all of these sites, the NVS is the only site you can interact freely and openly and all for free.
Here you meet very intelligent and well spoken Nigerians who share similar passions and dreams with you.
We have several forums that aid in connecting similar minded people, from Single and loving it... to Relationship Avenue, from NVS bloggers forum, to poem lovers corner, to football fantasia to book lovers corner, name it we have it and we have some of the best minds, male and female interacting on these forums, sharing ideas, information, jokes, tips and snippets of their lives, and yet, yet we have so little evidence of ongoing romance and relationships.
I recently met a beautiful lady who said i should not call it hook-up, that it sounds derogatory, so i prefer to say connect, more people should connect socially and hopefully take it to the next level.
I know we have some NVS aunties here who would be only too happy to scoop out the person of interest and give all the advice and counsel for a successful mating and matching detail, we also have some experienced ladies that would vouch for some of our members here, so abeg, dear villagers, especially our sistahs, make una take am easy on our brodahs, showing interest in you, ease up a little bit, give him a chance, let him prove himself and show you how sincere he is.
Same goes for our men too, make una open up and be honest and down to earth. I have met some really beautiful women on this site and i know they're interested, but us guys have to lead and take the bull by the horn.
Seriously, we need more Shoko-Mulan 2009.
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Bia Shinycoin.
Carrey time O! Wish wan be ya own now?
I tink say you, you don fin' beta woman to moreh abi? Dat is to say, you fit just chilleh-leh enjoy marital lifey for ogbonge bliss, yeah?
So wish wans yu dey, wey yu ma come dey decry the status-quo for hieh? Ooooh I seeee, you na community organizer like Barack wey like to spread goodwill and goodfortune around ko?
Now that na good tin. Somebody shout Allelu? Louder please?
Still, from my small korna hieh oh, 'e be like say all-man (plus woman) like as 'e be - that is to say, dem like di status-quo as 'e be, odawise we for dey see Bobos and Geges dey hussle for one anorda like Fishe-in-Heat.
Nor worry, if 'e bite pepo reash to hook-up, or konekt, or mareh, norbodi go need tell dem make dem do am. For now, all-man (plus woman) dey for korna dey denge-pose dey "wait to exhale".
Na tru yu tohk sha, beta pepo -- man o, woman o -- boku for dis Village nor be small. Di kure-kure-kueshon come be: who go first dive di pool?
I hieh say sam pepo dey shy make di ibante (nappy-like pants from the B.C. days) wey dem wieh take do swimmin trunk get hole fo' nyansh, and odas dey dieh dey wait for 'His Coming' befo dem fit take 'faith of leap (abi na leap of faith).
Wateva bi di tin wey dey hol' dem back, we go continue to pray say make God dash dem big-big liver to take do big-big tins. (Do I hieh an "Aymen?").
Aah, Shiny, it is well - AH SAY IT IS WELLU OOOO!
This na ya Broda,
Auspicious.Posted Jun 9, 2009 at 06:06 PM by Auspicious
- I think someone has put shiny in
alovey mode o.....This one he's been talking non stop about dating, relationship, marriage etc etc etc etc etc...........
Shiny...who do you like dis??Posted Jun 9, 2009 at 07:16 PM by Ph3y - Hey ShinyC, how about you be the one to bell the cat?Posted Jun 9, 2009 at 10:37 PM by Alexa
- Oh migosh....na wich Fish da Net bin Hook? Na who tell you say dem never begin connect for dis fillage? If i tell u da thingy wey i dey see....ur mouth no go fit carry am...all da sme sme wey dey happen for under G Plenty o...even self i don hook laik 5 Aduros..yes, u heard me right Aduros...dem full ground.......GET YOURS!!!!Posted Jun 9, 2009 at 10:39 PM by
- Looks like Shiny has belled the cat already! We await patiently (not) his declaration
And don't even try any eleventh hour denials oh!Posted Jun 10, 2009 at 04:01 PM by Juno - hhmm, my people, indeed love is a good thing o, and that's why i strongly advocate and recommend it.
when romance and relationships blossom on this site, we would have less conflicts and controversies, cos then people would spend their energy loving and being loved.
@emj,
hhmm, if under G moves are going on,then we await the good news when things has moved to the next stage. my ears are itching o.
@ Ph3y, Alexa and Juno,
you ladies happen to know some of the good looking and eligible brodahs here and am urging you to be nice to us, be patient with us even when we don't have the courage to be open about what we want, give us lots of encouragements and we shall own up to our feelings and do the right things
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@ Auspy,
my broda from anoda mama, abeg, our men need to be assertive when it comes to these NVS women o jare. some of them just dey timid and refuse to say their mind.
hhmm, i see some fine women here and i know some men searching, so why can they not connect, instead of beating about the bush?
Posted Jun 11, 2009 at 02:45 PM by shinycoin - Shiny they have to beat about the bush now......Cos they have to distract we onlookers first...before they now get off our radarPosted Jun 11, 2009 at 09:15 PM by Ph3y
- Shiny...
Haba we suppose beat around the bush...if we no beat de bush how we go see wetin dey inside de bush???
Suppose you wan chop mango and dey in front of mango tree, how you go take make ya selection? I mean too much One ways nah to carry stick, knack the tree...Ehhh...Gbosa!!! and wait to see how many ripe mango for fall...no be so we dey do as picken?
So as people dey beat de bush, dem dey hope say, de babes and bobos wey ripe, go fall....yakata for dey hand!!! easy, no wahala chikena!
Ameanawhila...madam EMJ don give all of una "intendeds" a hint, if you dey look and fear still dey catch you, you know who to knack PM...Posted Jun 11, 2009 at 10:25 PM by N.A.R. - Oga N.A.R, beating about the bush does not achieve anything o.
i remember that was my tactics in secondary school, and while my more daring assertive classmates had the best looking and hottest chics, i had to contend with the left overs and when i gather courage, the babe go tell me say she dey be friend Ola, or Biodun, or Segun, cos i was too timid...hhmm.Posted Jun 12, 2009 at 07:29 AM by shinycoin - Then make you set the ball rolling now. maybe when you start shoko-mulan 2009, somebody go start th 2010. abi wetin you think.Posted Jun 13, 2009 at 11:33 AM by rina
- Extra extra read all about it 7 aduros hooked
Wia u dey shiny....no sme sme o..ehen...we're waiting all da coding codes...lolPosted Jun 13, 2009 at 03:57 PM by - hhmm, rina, if your avatar is anything like your real self, then i won't be surprised if some of our eligible male villagers have you on their radar screen and invade you with PM, all am asking however, is that you give them a chance to express their sincere and heartfelt affection for you, and even when they beat about the bush, abeg, be understanding and patient, they will get to the koko of the matter in their own time, with encouragements from you, of course.Posted Jun 13, 2009 at 06:38 PM by shinycoin
- hhmm Countess, me i have no idea where all the codes and coding will come from o, you know i do my things openly.
if village elders like you give the single and searching villagers encouragement and support, especially the women here, am sure more Shoko-Mulan will follow.Posted Jun 13, 2009 at 06:42 PM by shinycoin - Howdy, Mr. Shiny!
I bet you'd be excited to read THIS.
It speaks to the same theme you introduced here.
Auspicious.Posted Jun 13, 2009 at 09:56 PM by Auspicious - hhmm, Auspy, i would strongly recommend that every single sistah reads that article you posted and take note.
Especially they should read it with an open mind and not be in a rush to jump to conclusions or make judgments.
I like the entire piece, because it's so true, particularly the "cookies" part, but some women still have not realised this and make a lot of wahala about it.
hhmmm!!Posted Jun 14, 2009 at 03:37 PM by shinycoin - before before, we been dey cahse eash other for the fillage square, sometimes even fall inside dumpster. This everybody mind im business mode, e be as e get jo!! Me too support your talk shiny. Wher man dey work na there im dey chop, na im make them call am workshop. So, who ever planted this cold feet, I cast am out in Jesu name. And sombori say Amen.Posted Jul 16, 2009 at 04:39 PM by Chief Kalu
- Don't worry.More NVS weddings are coming,yours inclusive.LOLPosted Jul 16, 2009 at 06:25 PM by aringaranso
- Okay o......We are eagerly awaiting the manifestation of the next NVS couple.......Just lemme have details of aso-ebi so we can represent fully at the owambe..Posted Jul 17, 2009 at 10:36 AM by Ph3y
