Should I Marry my Nigerian lover?

My name is Michael and I'm in love with a Nigerian Woman age 25 since we have not met in person K-1 for USA is invalid We pray every night for a way to get married, we could go to Canada immigrations there is liberal but then we would separate tearing us apart.
She is a nursing student but to get a student visa we need 19,000 up front. Could I get a visa to travel to Nigeria and marry there or could we marry in Canada my goal is to some day have her become a US citizen thats down the road most of all we want to be husband & wife. I have bought an engagement ring for her and plan on sending it over to Nigeria.
Can we get married any where in africa, europe, canada then bring her over to the US

nobiorah · Jan 31, 2006 , 11:14 AM

I admire your courage in contemplating marrying a woman you have never met in the flesh. I would advise that you be cautious in proceeding with this arrangement. Above all, do not start sending money or expensive gifts until you have met the said lady and established the genuiness of her affection.

I suggest you contact an immigration lawyer for advice on how best to bring her over to the US. You can google 'immigration+law+marriage' for a start.

otito · Jan 31, 2006 , 04:55 PM

My friend, I will advise you to really get to know the lady before you marry her. praying on the phone or internet is not enough. Please wake up.

admin · Feb 1, 2006 , 05:20 AM

From Michael

"> It's not that I do not trust Chinelo, I've talked to her broyher in Spain, Cardinal M-----
> had some background work performed for me. Our main problem is the US government
> which is not hard to guess. Now, what would happen if we met in Canada, married iver
> there, she would return home and then what? Or if I personally went to Lagos and married
> her there then what? I have a friend who will say he could support us because he makes
> over 250,000 a year I make one tenth of that, this was on advice of counsel.
> Seeking port in Canada is easier than the US. Is there any way to make this work. "

Anike · Feb 2, 2006 , 01:17 AM

This love seems pretty intense especially considering that you're yet to meet your fiance.

Good luck.

N.A.R. · Feb 3, 2006 , 01:42 AM

Admin,
Sup with that? Abegi clarify O!

E.BEN · Apr 16, 2006 , 07:15 PM

I do no think that your question is in order.It should have been how do you bring your lover over to your location? since you already made up your mind to marry her. Again I am not able to advise you since I am not privy to certain information with regards to how you met and so on.

Be careful.

E.BEN

emj · Apr 16, 2006 , 08:48 PM

Are u talking about wife by post or what? Are u sure that she will scale through at the canadian embassy in Nigeria, talk less of making to canada and immigration at the port of entry?

Jan 3, 2008 , 07:30 AM

Dear Michael
I beg you to drop this plan of your to marry this girl....Have you not been readinf about all the scam committed by Nigerians who claim to disperately fall in love with you soooo much without ever meeting you. You don't know this girl. I met someone on line, Flexykelvin4real, was what he called himself. He saw my photo and instantly fell head over heals. So he says.... He said that he was a engineer working in Scotland. He claim to have a 16 year old living with inlaws in Nigeria, due to his wifes passing during child birth. He said that he was from Jamaica. He wanted me to send his daughter something in Nigeria, who was having a birthday a week away...Red flag were flying everywhere. He pretended to have lots of money and wanted to travel to the Us. I questions him on everything because some things made no sense. I would anger him when I'd questioned him. Making a long story short, everything was a lie. He even used some eles photo. He was not in Scotland, but in Nigeria. He often said...., "I love you so much, we pray to God for us, because I love you so much".......Every thing with these people moves quick, quick. Please take my advice. You marry her and all her family problems.....You must make sure that this girl truly loves you and not just what you can do for her and her family.......These scams are done without feelings or care...Be aware! Ask God to show you this person and He will shield you from a lie... go to the web site; (Nigerian romance scammers) and look for her photo.....This is your life and future..Be aware!Good luck

elgaxton · Jan 3, 2008 , 01:45 PM

Originally Posted by E.BEN

I do no think that your question is in order.It should have been how do you bring your lover over to your location? since you already made up your mind to marry her. Again I am not able to advise you since I am not privy to certain information with regards to how you met and so on.

Be careful.

E.BEN

Hi E.Ben

I think I agree witrh your post, it makes some sense

Abeg make u just u style pop in the village intro section make u collect ya visa jare

You can use this short cut

though...

Happy new year!

The Pledge · Jan 3, 2008 , 03:10 PM

Oh boy, this your tv no too clear. Fine tune am make we know wetin you want. Just take am easyoooo. MAKE WETIN WANT CAP NO TAKE HEAD JOIN!
TAKIA>

Apr 5, 2009 , 05:21 PM

How can she be your 'lover' when you have not met in person?

Or is this a matter of the 'spirit'?

Another wan don come ooooooooooooh? Tomorrow una go show up for you tube abi na "Cheaters" dey complain.

All disi yahoo yahoo romance sef.

Anyway, how far now.....any show?

peterosa · Apr 5, 2009 , 07:41 PM

Originally Posted by otito

My friend, I will advise you to really get to know the lady before you marry her. praying on the phone or internet is not enough. Please wake up.

What is there to know about her,my friend ride on with the marriage no shaking i am by you, nigeria girls are the best and the most sexest girls in the in the would.

Solid · Apr 9, 2009 , 04:18 AM

Michael:

Plse, throw some clarity to these questions:-

1, Does this girl share the same culture and faith with you?

Sometimes, if you share the same culture, your upbringing may be similar and chances of making it in marriage may be possible. In the good old days, most of our fathers trusted in postal marriage.[Villagers, plse, don't slam-dunk me yet]

2, Are you 100% sure, nobody is keeping her company in Nigeria? [lover]

Humm. Some ladies may be looking for a passport for 'them' to cross over to the west. Some are genuine though.

3, Do you have a trusted contact person there?

Introduce a close family member[preferably woman] or friend to her in Nigeria. And get fresh situation report from this contact person from time to time.

4, Are you sure you genuinely love her and she loves you?

Soft-pedal on the emotional front at this time. Don't worry, it shall rise and adjust itself with time.

5, Did you take time to research her background yet?

Have you struck a conversation with her parents, family members, and her close friends etc., to sample their ways? Check out her close friends lifestyle?

Since it is a distance relationship, you need to draft a super-intelligent evaluation checklist for her to scale through before you commit......and of-course, she needs to design same for you!

Goodluck,

SOLID