Why Single Women Chase After Married Men - Page 2

As any single woman will tell you, all the good men are taken.
But that makes them all the more attractive, apparently.
Research shows that...
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rina · Aug 17, 2009 , 11:33 AM

Originally Posted by liloldlady

You did not know?

My Bros.........Money for hand
Back for ground.

You can lay a lot of fine fine Naija gals from Morning till morning.....so long as you have your Kudi.

Pulling in Nigeria, is like taking candy, off a kid....requires no effort lai lai.

Aunty, i humbly disagree, becos no be all the ladies 'be money for hand back for ground'.

oluomo · Aug 17, 2009 , 01:04 PM

Originally Posted by lateesha

I need to work harder then

My sister just pray for your man. No be by power o. If you like put the bro for house arrest and shine am till kingdom come (until he become shiny coin).

That one no guarantee anything. Na grace (not sister grace o) some of us they take hold ourside.

dem · Aug 17, 2009 , 02:18 PM

Pawning my ring (for guitar strings and a fake fur hat) sounded like a good idea at the time. But see now.

Abeg, kind people, anyone get spare ring? Abeg.

Ph3y · Aug 17, 2009 , 09:52 PM

The title of the thread says "Why single women chase after married men"....why have we turned it to "Why single [Nigerian] women chase after married [Nigerian??] men.
Or am i seeing parallax??

Aug 18, 2009 , 10:47 PM

Na married men dey chase single women abegggggiiiooo......not single women chasing married men....ESPECIALLY IN AWA AWARAWARA NIAJURIA.......if the married men learn to stay with their boring fat wives.....who only want to tire buba and iro to bed.....smelling of 'okporoko' every night......don't blame the single women abeg.

Anyhooooooooooooooooooooo.......

Give me an "open" marriage any day. If you chase me, I chase you...God no ves at all. :coooooooooooooooooool:

Any woman that cannot keep her man happy.....and vice versa.......too bad.

Survival of the fittest is the only game in life.

The winner takes it all.

Don't be a sour loser please. Learn to be a winner in any game you play or better luck next time.

Balo · Aug 18, 2009 , 11:46 PM

Ha it is noti likey dat o. it not a quession of keep ur man happy at all. Man happy, man no happy - same resulti o. Man must sample na man name!

Aug 18, 2009 , 11:59 PM

The reason I say most women like to waste their blaaaaaaaady time crying over 'straying' dogs.......man na man....im musto wacka.

It is just that there are wild dogs and there are 'home' dogs....but dog na dog......im must 'sniff' sha sha to varying degrees.

Should that be cause for concern?

Not in ma neck of da woods.....since I am an equal opportunity host and hostess.

As long as the bills are paid, pickins dem dey fine-fine.......no domestic violence, plenty money in ma checking account and I catch ma own fun....once in while....which wan come consian me for hinside? Na love we go chop?

As for the diseases of a thing.....na only God go hellep we for that matter.....no control for that departmental failure section.......Only Jesus can save....

But the show must go on.....and like hell it should.

How one man go look one stale nyansh for 1 year.....not to talk of 40 years?

God forbid bad thing O! If na juju...make e no catch me abeg.

oluomo · Aug 19, 2009 , 12:07 AM

Originally Posted by Simbili

Na married men dey chase single women abegggggiiiooo......not single women chasing married men....ESPECIALLY IN AWA AWARAWARA NIAJURIA.......if the married men learn to stay with their boring fat wives.....who only want to tire buba and iro to bed.....smelling of 'okporoko' every night......don't blame the single women abeg.

Anyhooooooooooooooooooooo.......

Give me an "open" marriage any day. If you chase me, I chase you...God no ves at all. :coooooooooooooooooool:

Any woman that cannot keep her man happy.....and vice versa.......too bad.

Survival of the fittest is the only game in life.

The winner takes it all.

Don't be a sour loser please. Learn to be a winner in any game you play or better luck next time.

Nna meeeeeeeeeeeen! See babanla dissing.

But bia simbili. Are you sure you are up to the challenge? 'cause as at the last count (not Count 1

), there are many buba-tying, oporoko-smelling, fat, married women in this village o and they'll be here in 5.......4.......3........2........1............

Am outta here

Aug 19, 2009 , 12:24 AM

Originally Posted by oluomo

Nna meeeeeeeeeeeen! See babanla dissing.

But bia simbili. Are you sure you are up to the challenge? 'cause as at the last count (not Count 1), there are many buba-tying, oporoko-smelling, fat, married women in this village o and they'll be here in 5.......4.......3........2........1............

Am outta here

han han han han han....

Na you tok am O!

Seriously....that buba and iro monster of an outfit should be banned in Nigeria. Any woman found tying such an outfit should be sent on exile to Sudan. I can't stand the sight of that mess....especially with a potruding stomach......and a bulging oversized behind.....YUCK!

Such things are not allowed in my home....not that it helps....

I do not want to blame the ladies out there for catering to the advances of married men....but in MOST cases, when you look at the wives at home...especially when you encounter them at these Nigerian parties.....you do not blame the men at all for straying. Those single ladies are just too beautiful and "tantalizing" to pass up.......KAI!!!

Married women should endeavour to take better care of themselves......to get some of these men to come home to 'roost' for the most part.

We still love them...but it is just not enough to get it 'up' in the bedroom....

Balo · Aug 19, 2009 , 02:01 AM

Now that I know you sha, I am loving you even more. You are d bomb. Kids taken care of, fine fine cars for madam to cruise around town, flenty flenty sterling for account and no mental or physical abuse infact plus im come respect and love you on top - I mean what else now? Haba if na joke make dem stop am one time.

But say madam wan catch that kin fun ehennn

, but im musto make sure say i no no or suspect - after dat no problem.

lateesha · Aug 19, 2009 , 02:18 AM

Originally Posted by shinycoin

hhmm Lateesha, you sef!

how are naija girls different from the girls in the US? or the teen age girls in the UK?

don't we know the teen aged pregnancy rate in these countries?

don't girls in these countries give themselves to guys cheaply? whether for auditioning or watefer?

abeg, our naija girls are no different from girls anywhere.
women sleep with married women in naija just as much as anywhere else and that does not in anyway make them worse than their counterparts in the west.

it's not a cultural thing, or a poverty thing, or a class thing or a race thing, its just what some women do. you need to come to my city and see what young asian girls do with themselves, even Jamaican girls here.

sleeping around is not confined to our naija girls and am sure that your in-law will do the same thing to girls anywhere he finds himself, all he needs is sweet mouth and confidence in his raps!

I know it doesn't sound good saying this about my own gender but my brother,things are very bad.
I would be condoning fornication if I asked you to do your own research.
The level of desperation back home is appalling.
These girls would do anything for money.

Unemployment turned our men into con artists,yahoo boys and now kidnappers,it turned our girls into shameless prostitutes.
Definitely I don't mean all since obviously not all men are yahoozees,but you know what I mean.

It's like asking me if the Nigerian politician is corrupt?
My answer is not going to be that there are corrupt politicians everywhere because when something reaches an alarming level,it would take a dishonest person not to admit the glaring truth.
The average man with a little change in his pocket can go to Nigeria today and sleep with 10 girls on the same bed if if he so wishes as long as he flashes them naira.
I am not kidding you
It's that bad.
Promise to marry them and take them to Ghana sef, they'll be yours until the day you leave.

I go home quite often and I know what I'm talking about.

The prostitution thing is so big that women leave their new born babies at home and head to Italy with the consent and blessings of their families.
Those ugly pot bellied caucasians working in warri and PH are now said to have mothers and their teenage daughters for threesomes.

For those of you who are planning to go home and marry, an HIV and a hepatitis B test are a must.
Some churches won't even wed you now without a negative result.
That's how bad things have become.

Balo · Aug 19, 2009 , 02:33 AM

Sometimes I wonder where this Shinycoin of a guy lives or how often or een when last he went to 9ja. Listen up bro and let me put it to you straight, if no be say some people know me for here I for talk plenty but self respect no want make dem begin dey look me like say i don spoil finish but the point is this - in all my experiences 9ja girls are not just easy, they are the easiest. No posing natinnnnnnnnnnnnn - dat na for uni days - now its as simple as ABC - show me ya money. Its all about the dollars in 9ja, bro.

dem · Aug 19, 2009 , 01:00 PM

Originally Posted by Simbili

Na married men dey chase single women abegggggiiiooo......not single women chasing married men....ESPECIALLY IN AWA AWARAWARA NIAJURIA.......

Abeg to disagree ma'am.

The research long small. Even Okafor principle come to play its own part as well for that scenario up there.

Aug 19, 2009 , 05:23 PM

Originally Posted by Balo

Now that I know you sha, I am loving you even more. You are d bomb. Kids taken care of, fine fine cars for madam to cruise around town, flenty flenty sterling for account and no mental or physical abuse infact plus im come respect and love you on top - I mean what else now? Haba if na joke make dem stop am one time.

But say madam wan catch that kin fun ehennn, but im musto make sure say i no no or suspect - after dat no problem.

Well written!!!!!

If I were female ehnnnnnnn

......you are one of my MANY #1 picks anyday in this village. You kind of understand the game......and you give out nothing but absolutely 'sweeeeeeeeeeetest' taboo vibes.....

Not to worry...some of us wey 'too' sabi.....no dey leave 'traces' or 'footprints' as we embark on these pilgramages.

Your heart will always be safe in ma hands......absolutely no collateral damages or prisoners of war.

Of course.....if you care about someone, you must try not to hurt them. The reason I always advocate seeking out people of like minds......iwith brave hearts and metallic livers incapabe of catching any form of jaundice.

Yes....I do believe in "don't ask...don't tell" rules. Chop the thing well well.....then clean ya mouth and your ***** well well.....leave no residues or "aromas".....

Originally Posted by dem

Abeg to disagree ma'am.

The research long small. Even Okafor principle come to play its own part as well for that scenario up there.

True...but no need for long research. Even with this Okafor of a principle......you know for a fact that the men always mostly do this chasing around of a thing. Not to say some women do not display "agro" tendencies.

If I were a female ehnnnnnnn(just saying sha....

).....Lord knows that there are some Okafors that are worth visiting even without being chased......like you know warrra mean.....just for "brushing" purposes and occasional 'engine' tune-up.....

Na men dey cause all these chasing wahalas.....if only they would stay with their MOPOL angels/prayer warrior wives and stop harassing single ladies all over the globe........9 times ourra 10, the men are doing the hunting.....the single ladies are only available to meet the demands or needs of the 'starved' dudes who are never satisfied by the way.

ANY MARRIED MAN THAT WANDERS OUT OF HIS MATRIMONIAL BED BECOMES COMMUNITY PROPERTY.....I have no sympathy for him or his wife......(the wife should go and take lessons on how to keep her husband on a short leash)......I do not blame any single lady for shagging a married man(infact I commend her)

shinycoin · Aug 19, 2009 , 07:07 PM

hhmm, shebi some of these NVS women that say naija women are cheap were once based in naija? i wonder how many times they spread their legs and for how much?

Abi dem born una for obodo oyinbo? or things became that way after you had left?

Its quite degrading to say that naija women are cheap and can be gotten for money, when everyone of us has sisters and nieces in naija and by their categorisation, these women are cheap.

I take exceptions to that generalisation and defend the integrity of naija women.

As for why single women run after married men, well, that happens everywhere and if naija women are cheap, then so are women everywhere, cos the naija is no different, better or worse than her counterpart anywhere.

abeg, make una leave my naija sisters alone.

liloldlady · Aug 19, 2009 , 07:15 PM

Originally Posted by shinycoin

hhmm, shebi some of these NVS women that say naija women are cheap were once based in naija? i wonder how many times they spread their legs and for how much?

Abi dem born una for obodo oyinbo? or things became that way after you had left?

Its quite degrading to say that naija women are cheap and can be gotten for money, when everyone of us has sisters and nieces in naija and by their categorisation, these women are cheap.

I take exceptions to that generalisation and defend the integrity of naija women.

As for why single women run after married men, well, that happens everywhere and if naija women are cheap, then so are women everywhere, cos the naija is no different, better or worse than her counterpart anywhere.

abeg, make una leave my naija sisters alone.

SC...You are getting overtly sentimental over nothing.
Geeze, this thing is as obvious as the nose on your face.

Ya know what...forget it......a lot of those girls are saints.
You happy?

shinycoin · Aug 19, 2009 , 07:24 PM

Originally Posted by liloldlady

SC...You are getting overtly sentimental over nothing.
Geeze, this thing is as obvious as the nose on your face.

Ya know what...forget it......a lot of those girls are saints.
You happy?

Now you're speaking my language

Balo · Aug 20, 2009 , 12:11 AM

Na wa. We definitely exist in different worlds, that's one thing that I gather from here. Naija women integrity ko intotogritty ni. No one here has said that all 9ja women are cheap and to be honest it never used to be as bad as it is now, but that it is so easy to get laid given our present economic environment is without a doubt. Go to even your top 9ja clubs in lagos or Abuja like lacasa or no 10 or saipan or Ottos or tucanos or soho lounge and tanda for one corner with a table reserved for you and your guys (and this by 9ja standards is working hard o) - point a finger at a good eighty percent of the girls and see what happens. You go think say you be Michael Jackson!!

Balo · Aug 20, 2009 , 12:14 AM

The point we are trying to make which might be somewhat lost on you is that -it's all about our desperate economic situation and a now morally bankrupt system.

valteena · Aug 20, 2009 , 12:15 AM

Originally Posted by Balo

Na wa. We definitely exist in different worlds, that's one thing that I gather from here. Naija women integrity ko intotogritty ni. No one here has said that all 9ja women are cheap and to be honest it never used to be as bad as it is now, but that it is so easy to get laid given our present economic environment is without a doubt. Go to even your top 9ja clubs in lagos or Abuja like lacasa or no 10 or saipan or Ottos or tucanos or soho lounge and tanda for one corner with a table reserved for you and your guys (and this by 9ja standards is working hard o) - point a finger at a good eighty percent of the girls and see what happens. You go think say you be Michael Jackson!!

Ummm!!!!