Why Single Women Chase After Married Men - Page 3

As any single woman will tell you, all the good men are taken.
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Balo · Aug 20, 2009 , 12:23 AM

Originally Posted by valteena

Ummm!!!!

And some of these girls are not only very smart people who would otherwise have thrived in a different environment but they are stunning to the boot as well. The truth is painful.

lateesha · Aug 20, 2009 , 03:51 AM

Originally Posted by Balo

Na wa. We definitely exist in different worlds, that's one thing that I gather from here. Naija women integrity ko intotogritty ni. No one here has said that all 9ja women are cheap and to be honest it never used to be as bad as it is now, but that it is so easy to get laid given our present economic environment is without a doubt. Go to even your top 9ja clubs in lagos or Abuja like lacasa or no 10 or saipan or Ottos or tucanos or soho lounge and tanda for one corner with a table reserved for you and your guys (and this by 9ja standards is working hard o) - point a finger at a good eighty percent of the girls and see what happens. You go think say you be Michael Jackson!!

How you take know all these unholy places?

Chei
This boy is a heathen o

Aug 20, 2009 , 04:49 AM

Originally Posted by Balo

Na wa. We definitely exist in different worlds, that's one thing that I gather from here. Naija women integrity ko intotogritty ni. No one here has said that all 9ja women are cheap and to be honest it never used to be as bad as it is now, but that it is so easy to get laid given our present economic environment is without a doubt. Go to even your top 9ja clubs in lagos or Abuja like lacasa or no 10 or saipan or Ottos or tucanos or soho lounge and tanda for one corner with a table reserved for you and your guys (and this by 9ja standards is working hard o) - point a finger at a good eighty percent of the girls and see what happens. You go think say you be Michael Jackson!!

uuhhmm...uuhhmm....uuhhmmmmmmmm

Nothing like a boy who knows how to have a goooooooooooooood time......

Na you biko....e dey for ya bodi gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan.

wahala dey ooooooooooooooooh....you have always been kinda special.

Magic · Aug 20, 2009 , 05:15 PM

All one needs to do is bring one of them to Europe or USA, train her in any of the high paying job and they will be grateful to you forever and ever.

Originally Posted by lateesha

I know it doesn't sound good saying this about my own gender but my brother,things are very bad.
I would be condoning fornication if I asked you to do your own research.
The level of desperation back home is appalling.
These girls would do anything for money.

Unemployment turned our men into con artists,yahoo boys and now kidnappers,it turned our girls into shameless prostitutes.
Definitely I don't mean all since obviously not all men are yahoozees,but you know what I mean.

It's like asking me if the Nigerian politician is corrupt?
My answer is not going to be that there are corrupt politicians everywhere because when something reaches an alarming level,it would take a dishonest person not to admit the glaring truth.
The average man with a little change in his pocket can go to Nigeria today and sleep with 10 girls on the same bed if if he so wishes as long as he flashes them naira.
I am not kidding you
It's that bad.
Promise to marry them and take them to Ghana sef, they'll be yours until the day you leave.

I go home quite often and I know what I'm talking about.

The prostitution thing is so big that women leave their new born babies at home and head to Italy with the consent and blessings of their families.
Those ugly pot bellied caucasians working in warri and PH are now said to have mothers and their teenage daughters for threesomes.

For those of you who are planning to go home and marry, an HIV and a hepatitis B test are a must.
Some churches won't even wed you now without a negative result.
That's how bad things have become.

shinycoin · Aug 20, 2009 , 08:14 PM

Originally Posted by Balo

Sometimes I wonder where this Shinycoin of a guy lives or how often or een when last he went to 9ja. Listen up bro and let me put it to you straight, if no be say some people know me for here I for talk plenty but self respect no want make dem begin dey look me like say i don spoil finish but the point is this - in all my experiences 9ja girls are not just easy, they are the easiest. No posing natinnnnnnnnnnnnn - dat na for uni days - now its as simple as ABC - show me ya money. Its all about the dollars in 9ja, bro.

Balo my broda, you make me laff too much.
abeg, na for where you live on this palnet?

how many times you don chase woman and she tell you no?

if you come America, you no even need money to sleep with woman, all you need na sweet raps, a job, a place of ya own and maybe a car, even sef, you no too need all these things.

some ***** woman go happy say you no be gay and you no dey stay ya mama house and you no dey inside jail.
if naija babes sleep with you sake of ya money nko? na bad thing?

listen well well,

any guy living in Europe, UK or US will tell you that some women there are a dime a dozen. you can shag the prettiest babe in town if she's single and available, young or old, e no matter.

why do you think teen age pregnancy is so high over there? or why are there so many unwed mothers?

why come down so heavily on naija babes? the same method you use to score with the naija babe will get a woman anywhere in any part of the world, if na lie, ask our bachelor NVS members make them tell you their experiences with women in their parts of the world... so why is the naija woman different?

if its economic condition that make her that way, at least she has an excuse.. what excuse does the average young woam have in say US or Canada or Europe for instance? they are just as promiscuos as their naija counterpart.

na goat wey never leave him owner backyard believe say that backyard is the whole world.

valteena · Aug 20, 2009 , 08:38 PM

Originally Posted by shinycoin

Balo my broda, you make me laff too much.
abeg, na for where you live on this palnet?

how many times you don chase woman and she tell you no?

if you come America, you no even need money to sleep with woman, all you need na sweet raps, a job, a place of ya own and maybe a car, even sef, you no too need all these things.

some ***** woman go happy say you no be gay and you no dey stay ya mama house and you no dey inside jail.
if naija babes sleep with you sake of ya money nko? na bad thing?

listen well well,

any guy living in Europe, UK or US will tell you that some women there are a dime a dozen. you can shag the prettiest babe in town if she's single and available, young or old, e no matter.

why do you think teen age pregnancy is so high over there? or why are there so many unwed mothers?

why come down so heavily in naija babes? the same method you use to score with the naija babe will get a woman anywhere in any part of the world, if na lie, ask our bachelor NVS members make them tell you their experiences with women in their parts of the world... so why is the naija woman different?

if its economic condition that make her that way, at least she has an excuse.. what excuse does the average young woam have in say US or Canada or Europe for instance? they are just as promiscuos as their naija counterpart.

na goat wey never leave him owner backyard believe say that backyard is the whole world.

Tell them shiny. In Britain here especially, after one pint of beer or bacardi and whatever concotion they mix it with or a cider, you fit lay the girls whereever you like, toilet you just name it. And they want one to believe that Naija girls are worst than those.

Every June and July my company hold this summer ball. It's like an award ceremony and after the formal event come and see all the girls, ladies and all making out with their colleagues all over the place, toilet, dance floor etc and yet some of them have partners or boyfriend at home or even with them when they sneak out for the quickies.

My first year with the company and at the ball, I was so shocked at their flagrantly displayed sexual escapade. And it is usually a one night stand lol. The following day, they carry on normal as if the previous night never happened.
Even my lady boss that I use to see as a no nonesense lady shocked me as she was virtually openly making love with a junior colleague. They eventually left to book a room at a nearby hotel for the night. Yet she lives with her partner.

shinycoin · Aug 20, 2009 , 08:48 PM

Valteena thanks for saying it like it is.

my shock comes when some of our naija babes here in this NVS who live abroad see all these things around them and still say naija women are cheap and they all used to live in naija and have sisters, aunts, cousins and nieces in naija and the say our women are cheap becos of money.

u need to see what young high school kids do on their prom night. as much as 90% of high school kids sleep with their date or boyfriend on prom night, and this with their parent approval and come see pregnancy afterwards.

yet some here have the nerve to critise my naija sisters,

abeg, make we hear word jare.

go see what our caribean women do during their caribana festival in the summer in the US/Canada.
see how Asian gilrs sleep with just about anyone, young or old, yet dem dey blame our naija women,
i wonder where dem they live, comparing our girls with others in the world.

Balo et al, take time o!

shinycoin · Aug 20, 2009 , 08:50 PM

abeg, shebi ph3y has asked: is this thread about naija women or is it about why single women chase married men?

people have derailed this thread!!

Soul Sista · Aug 20, 2009 , 09:25 PM

All these "cheap" Naija women must be sleeping with aliens or apes? Right? I don't subscribe to the double standard. The one who keeps joining his dirty body to the body of any dirty girl who is willing to open her legs is just as dirty and disgusting as the girl(s) to whom he joins himself. After sampling every Sikira, Nnenna, and Amina, to pontificate about how cheap Naija girls are is pretty hypocritical and sanctimonious.

shinycoin · Aug 20, 2009 , 09:36 PM

Originally Posted by Soul Sista

All these "cheap" Naija women must be sleeping with aliens or apes? Right? I don't subscribe to the double standard. The one who keeps joining his dirty body to the body of any dirty girl who is willing to open her legs is just as dirty and disgusting as the girl(s) to whom he joins himself. After sampling every Sikira, Nnenna, and Amina, to pontificate about how cheap Naija girls are is pretty hypocritical and sanctimonious.

abeg help me tell them jare!!

is it Naija or South Africa that has the highest HIV/AIDS ratio in Africa? or our women more promiscuous than Ghanaian women?
some of our people sef with generalisations
how are naija women different from any woman anywhere in the world.

go to South Asia and see what prostitution is like...

you talk of our university girls and i laff even louder.
i have schooled in university here and in naija and i can tell you , the babes in universities in this part of the world, all they ask you is a bottle of beer and thats it, the hostels are like brothels and some spend years in school, just passing time.

make we hear word about naija babes being cheap.

Bunch17 · Aug 20, 2009 , 09:38 PM

Originally Posted by Soul Sista

All these "cheap" Naija women must be sleeping with aliens or apes? Right? I don't subscribe to the double standard. The one who keeps joining his dirty body to the body of any dirty girl who is willing to open her legs is just as dirty and disgusting as the girl(s) to whom he joins himself. After sampling every Sikira, Nnenna, and Amina, to pontificate about how cheap Naija girls are is pretty hypocritical and sanctimonious.

As the maiguard was said to have said to the prostitute, "e sweet me sweet you, who go pay?"

Why Single Women Chase After Married Men

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Auspicious · Aug 20, 2009 , 09:43 PM

Originally Posted by Bunch17

As the maiguard was said to have said to the prostitute, "e sweet me sweet you, who go pay?"

LOOOOL!

Abi O! 2 Divided by 2 Ezikuato Wan.

Auspicious.

shinycoin · Aug 20, 2009 , 10:19 PM

Originally Posted by Auspicious

LOOOOL!

Abi O! 2 Divided by 2 Ezikuato Wan.

Auspicious.

bros, abeg, i no wan laff,..

this word, na where you from coin am abeg?
cheiii, NVS people, i learn a new thingy here everyday

dem · Aug 21, 2009 , 08:56 AM

Originally Posted by Magic

All one needs to do is bring one of them to Europe or USA, train her in any of the high paying job and they will be grateful to you forever and ever.

Magic my brother,

Spoken like a man!

Yes o.

It would appear you're still making your way through that university called life - we all are. To my knowledge, no man who took the module 'women' ever aced it or even passed it. You do what you suggest up there, and the very high probability is that you've got a nasty shock waiting for you - not to talk of the bank asking for their money back, and a bunch of dropout brothers like me saying to you "I told you so."

My brother, e get as e be with women o, but you didn't hear that from me...

dem · Aug 21, 2009 , 09:08 AM

Originally Posted by shinycoin

...the same method you use to score with the naija babe will get a woman anywhere in any part of the world,

Except in Afghanistan. Those Talibans don play. I lost that my fur hat in Helmand Province.

Originally Posted by valteena

Tell them shiny. In Britain here especially, after one pint of beer or bacardi and whatever concotion they mix it with or a cider, you fit lay the girls whereever you like, toilet you just name it.

........

My first year with the company and at the ball, I was so shocked at their flagrantly displayed sexual escapade. And it is usually a one night stand lol. The following day, they carry on normal as if the previous night never happened...

Val,

Ok, that was your first year. How has it been for you since then in these company balls?

dem · Aug 21, 2009 , 09:20 AM

Originally Posted by shinycoin

you talk of our university girls and i laff even louder.
i have schooled in university here and in naija and i can tell you , the babes in universities in this part of the world, all they ask you is a bottle of beer and thats it,

Shinycoin,

Where dis university dey? Err....not for me o. You see, I need this info for when the time comes for my kids to go uni and if any of them pick that school, I can strike it out from the application form quick quick one time.

Magic · Aug 21, 2009 , 04:18 PM

Originally Posted by dem

Magic my brother,

Spoken like a man!

Yes o.

It would appear you're still making your way through that university called life - we all are. To my knowledge, no man who took the module 'women' ever aced it or even passed it. You do what you suggest up there, and the very high probability is that you've got a nasty shock waiting for you - not to talk of the bank asking for their money back, and a bunch of dropout brothers like me saying to you "I told you so."

My brother, e get as e be with women o, but you didn't hear that from me...

Dem,

Someone said that if you get to know some of the girls, you will not understand why they went so low. If you were home at the time Ghana girls were going thru the same thing in Nigeria, some of them were university students and pretty.

Crown one of those Nigerian girls as a wife, save their families from embarassment and bring them over, especially those who watched Jerry Springler at home - you will be

for the rest of your life.

Nevertheless, we never praise the good ones that stand by their men enough.

lateesha · Aug 21, 2009 , 04:20 PM

Nigerians are not cheap.
They are very dificult to catch

valteena · Aug 21, 2009 , 09:53 PM

Originally Posted by dem

Val,

Ok, that was your first year. How has it been for you since then in these company balls?

I am no longer shock but it is still a disgusting thing to see so all I do now is just stay for the formal event and take my leave before I see too many eyesore jare.

I mean I no want my sensibilities to be abused by some lady in ball gown or evening dress, with no panties on, and who goes on the dance floor lifting her gown and exhibiting all her bits for all to see and performing lurid acts in the name of dancing with any male colleague. Yukkk!!!.

And that's usually just the preamble to some of the things they get up to lol.

dem · Aug 23, 2009 , 11:09 AM

Originally Posted by valteena

I am no longer shock but it is still a disgusting thing to see so all I do now is just stay for the formal event and take my leave before I see too many eyesore jare.

I mean I no want my sensibilities to be abused by some lady in ball gown or evening dress, with no panties on, and who goes on the dance floor lifting her gown and exhibiting all her bits for all to see and performing lurid acts in the name of dancing with any male colleague. Yukkk!!!.

And that's usually just the preamble to some of the things they get up to lol.

I hear you. But sounds like fun though. Beats cathecism class that's for sure. Where and when dis ball dey hold sef? And who be your guest for the next one?