Why Single Women Chase After Married Men - Page 4

As any single woman will tell you, all the good men are taken.
But that makes them all the more attractive, apparently.
Research shows that...
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Ph3y · Aug 23, 2009 , 06:27 PM

Originally Posted by dem

I hear you. But sounds like fun though. Beats cathecism class that's for sure. Where and when dis ball dey hold sef? And who be your guest for the next one?

hmm, Dem. Onibara n ba ole bo!!

[Small time beggar go turn to thief.]
Valtee baby over to you

Kurunmi · Aug 25, 2009 , 03:10 PM

Now that we know that 9ja babes in 9ja are the only cheap babes in the world, now that we know that once a 9ja babe lives abroad she's no longer a 9ja babe.now that we know that if you have money or if you chase a babe that is not 9ja by showing off with money, she will just hiss and walk away and hate you kpaa kpaa, now that we have been educated by the bubblers who know all the hot spots in 9ja where cheap babes are the staple, can we heed the indication here that this is not a thread about cheap 9ja women or rich, willing and indulgent 9ja guys???

valteena · Aug 25, 2009 , 03:27 PM

Originally Posted by dem

I hear you. But sounds like fun though. Beats cathecism class that's for sure. Where and when dis ball dey hold sef? And who be your guest for the next one?

He he he dem wan come see wen

. Too late for this year lol. Na summer ball every June or July.

No worry if you want I go put you down as ma guest for next year just so you go come experience am. I know say you'll be in your element,

so I go just leave you to your own device after. How about that?

MsWoman · Aug 25, 2009 , 04:29 PM

Originally Posted by Auspicious

LOOOOL!

Abi O! 2 Divided by 2 Ezikuato Wan.

Auspicious.

Auspi nor go kill me!

"Isikwostu" nko?!

You know there are some Naija people who really think “is equal to” is one word!

liloldlady · Aug 25, 2009 , 05:38 PM

Originally Posted by MsWoman

Auspi nor go kill me!

"Isikwostu" nko?!

You know there are some Naija people who really think “is equal to” is one word!

No forget say, it must be equals to always. Nothing else will do.

shinycoin · Aug 25, 2009 , 09:10 PM

Originally Posted by valteena

He he he dem wan come see wen. Too late for this year lol. Na summer ball every June or July.

No worry if you want I go put you down as ma guest for next year just so you go come experience am. I know say you'll be in your element, so I go just leave you to your own device after. How about that?

hhmm abeg, valteena, put my name down as ya guest.
u think say i no want come check out fine babes boogying down on the dance floor, showing all their ntural and maybe not-so-natutral endowments

me i for come like watch this free show o!!

dem · Aug 26, 2009 , 09:18 AM

Originally Posted by valteena

He he he dem wan come see wen. Too late for this year lol. Na summer ball every June or July.

No worry if you want I go put you down as ma guest for next year just so you go come experience am. I know say you'll be in your element, so I go just leave you to your own device after. How about that?

Val,

Not bad. Not bad at all.

Abeg, make I take my tuxedo go for dry cleaners. They might have to take out the seams small.

Thanks; I owe you one. (Ha! Dat sound like pun? Ah no mean am like that o!)

Cheerio

Balo · Aug 29, 2009 , 04:11 PM

Originally Posted by lateesha

How you take know all these unholy places?
Chei
This boy is a heathen o

Blame not the messenger but the message!

. How you sef take know them?? I hope the Tiger is well aware?

Balo · Aug 29, 2009 , 04:32 PM

Originally Posted by valteena

He he he dem wan come see wen. Too late for this year lol. Na summer ball every June or July.

No worry if you want I go put you down as ma guest for next year just so you go come experience am. I know say you'll be in your element, so I go just leave you to your own device after. How about that?

Hmmm! I wouldn't put that Dem of a guy on my list if I were you o!

valteena · Aug 29, 2009 , 06:18 PM

Originally Posted by Balo

Hmmm! I wouldn't put that Dem of a guy on my list if I were you o!

You reckone Balo en? Se kpe dem na very very baaaaaddd man. I might just listen to your wise counsel

valteena · Aug 29, 2009 , 06:21 PM

Originally Posted by shinycoin

hhmm abeg, valteena, put my name down as ya guest.
u think say i no want come check out fine babes boogying down on the dance floor, showing all their ntural and maybe not-so-natutral endowments

me i for come like watch this free show o!!

SC my brother I no want make dem come spoil you kpata kpata for me o. But if you insist, I go consider am

Balo · Aug 29, 2009 , 07:27 PM

Originally Posted by valteena

You reckone Balo en? Se kpe dem na very very baaaaaddd man. I might just listen to your wise counsel

I no talk anytin o, in fact I never see the guy before.

shinycoin · Aug 31, 2009 , 05:24 PM

Originally Posted by valteena

SC my brother I no want make dem come spoil you kpata kpata for me o. But if you insist, I go consider am

Valteena my sista,
i have been an innocent for too long. i think it's time i lost my innocence, so abeg, make dem spoil me small, i no mind.

put my name for that list for next summer abeg!!

Anike · Sep 17, 2009 , 05:48 AM

Funny, I was going to blog about something related to this over the weekend, but I never got around to it. More like "why do married women assume that single women are after their men?" "Why" with a fat big, abi is it big fat, W, that is. I don't get it at all? Never did, never will, don't want to. It's sick! sick!! sick!!! Trust! Where did it go? Please marry your friend or face the music, and leave single women alone in peace, biko. Abi is it the men that lie to these women that every single woman out there is falling over the other just to get their attention? It is seriously ga ju. Oh singles, woe is you, t'keep seeing what you keep seeing! Better yet, woe is you, for you are lost, for you are a [woman] with unclean lips. Wetin my korokoro eye see for owambe, my cyber-mouth no fit talk am.

Our married sisters; if the single women desperately need a Mrs. in front of their names, I bet you they can, at the very minimum, buy one. If you were not fooling around with married men when you were in the club, why do you think those still in the club are interested in fooling around with your husband? Or is this a case of the evil that [the woman did]? Remember, it takes two gan sef. Our married brothers, what's with letting your madam question you gan sef? Be faithful and open jo. You might be a good friend to have, but certainly not worth the insolence that comes with having you as a friend, I don't think.

Valteena/threadstarter, sorry o... I am done venting.

So... "Why single women [run] after married men". Because the married men are some bloody good catches? Or because the women are trying to shed some pounds? For every happy chaser, there has to be a happy chasee, no? 2 don cut 4 biko. Happy chasing!

Good Night.

Balo · Sep 17, 2009 , 06:45 AM

I kinda dig the imteresting angle you've opened up in your post - maybe these wives are just insecure because they are speaking from experience, right??

liloldlady · Sep 17, 2009 , 11:59 AM

A lot of it is rooted in Psychological issues.

There are a lot of commitment phobes out there.
In order to hide from themselves, they fall for men they know they could never have....that way they never have to look inward and deal with their issues.

In our soceity a lot of women (and men too) have really dreadful self esteem. This affects their ability to accept, that they are truly lovable, and are deserving of being special and cherished. Add to that, a society that empowers men to think women are SPORT..And its no surprise that a lot of women do not believe in their intrinsic lovability.
Thus, By going from one unavailable man, to another, they never have to address this emotional burden.
Even when they marry...they still manage to cook up the most dysfunctional union this side of the Southern Hemisphere.
They answer 'Mrs' in name only, but have no emotional investment in their spouses, and thus seek to posses and dominate him like chattel.
Hence the notion that other women are after their Husbands..