Can You Marry A Guy You Are Older Than? - Page 6

CAN YOU MARRY A GUY YOU ARE 6 YEARS OLDER THAN:

A very close friend asked me this question and i told her that it all depends on how one feels..if one feels comfortable with the relationship then she should go ahead...

now that i am thinking about it, my first reaction...

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emj · May 27, 2009 , 02:19 PM

Eherm Duchess i still dey Hail u o...your comment is a Back-Breaker walahi...every pun intended

liloldlady · May 27, 2009 , 04:16 PM

Originally Posted by the duchess

As they say, everyone get for body. That a woman you know married a younger man and had a bad experience does not mean that others should not try it. To date is one thing and marriage as we all know is a completely different world on its own and the age of the people involved is just a small piece of a very large jigsaw.....................
.........................................African women, wake up, seek your happiness and forget stereotype I am not married to a younger man, but I would rather have a younger man who understands me and the new world we live in than an older man whose greatest adventure NA POLITICS AND POLITICAL MEETINGS - AT WHICH HE SAYS LITTLE, ONLY BODY PRESENT.If birthday celebration is the issue, then let those who do not wish to attend stay away. The fact still remains that every woman want to be made to feel like a queen and if the person who makes you thick as a woman is younger, sister, GO for IT, I say make you grab am with 2 hands o; because I can assure that those so called friends whose husbands take a whole hour to get going when it comes to love making, are secretly dying of envy and jealousy.

What a refreshing perspective on things.......I shall be looking forward to reading your offerings....since it appears you are not backward in coming forward with, Original..., self generated....., independent...., Viewpoints and opinions.

Rock On!!!!! Gal

the duchess · May 27, 2009 , 06:34 PM

Hey, People. I beg some people if my comments were too graphic. No ..... intended.

It is just that sometimes people overlook the things that are the most important. The average African woman has a lot of battles to fight and I believe, that the shift in 'status quo' that is happening everywhere else should not pass Africa by -- especially our Naija -- the land of milk and honey. Our ladies should be allowed to express themselves.

I found the topic of interest because as I said a dear friend is going through it. Love is a beautiful thing, any woman or man of any age can be dumped, disrespected, cheated on, etc, by any woman or any man irrespective of age difference. Pray to find true love.

Men, whether we like or not AND whether they admit it or not are all little babies. If you say that you do not want to be a mother to your husband, my sis, the woman who is willing to be one to him will take him away from you.

You can curse him forever afterwards, but he is gone and most of the time left the woman to provide for the children.

Balo · May 27, 2009 , 06:47 PM

Originally Posted by the duchess

Thank you o my dear valteena. Ladies make una no wake up o; the boys are picking up all the little girls and feeling good about it and when a younger man fancies an older woman, it immediately becomes public palava. Na wetin ... Medically, a woman's sex drive goes up with age while a man’s the opposite. For this, you need an active partner, not ..... need I say more.

Please do things that will make you happy, agreed, not every woman is brave enough to take this step, but if can, my dear GO FOR IT.

Hey you, behave yasef will you!!

the duchess · May 27, 2009 , 07:33 PM

Originally Posted by Balo

Hey you, behave yasef will you!!

I dey try.....

lateesha · May 27, 2009 , 07:40 PM

Most of my friends say that if they ever divorce their husbands,the next one must be at least 10 years younger.

Balo · May 27, 2009 , 08:09 PM

Originally Posted by lateesha

Most of my friends say that if they ever divorce their husbands,the next one must be at least 10 years younger.

Ehen is that so? Young women of today, dem don spoil finish. Back in my days when women were women and knew their position eg kitchen and bedroom, all these sort of talk was unheard of.

liloldlady · May 27, 2009 , 08:26 PM

Originally Posted by Balo

Ehen is that so? Young women of today, dem don spoil finish. Back in my days when women were women and knew their position eg kitchen and bedroom, all these sort of talk was unheard of.

Hmmm...Me thinks, some want to taste how remarkable it feels, to sleep on the Couch. ....keep up that line of yabis, and thou shalt be barnished to the most uncomfortable Sofa in the House for starters. No

for 10days.
After the orientation period, I mentioned above, your re-education shall commence pror-pror-ly.

NextLevel · May 27, 2009 , 08:27 PM

Originally Posted by Balo

Ehen is that so? Young women of today, dem don spoil finish. Back in my days when women were women and knew their position eg kitchen and bedroom, all these sort of talk was unheard of.

I know it's less than 30 minutes since you wrote this but where are the feminists? Soul Sista must be pretty busy...

NextLevel · May 27, 2009 , 08:28 PM

Originally Posted by liloldlady

Hmmm...Me thinks, some want to taste how remarkable it feels, to sleep on the Couch. ....keep up that line of yabis, and thou shalt be barnished to the most uncomfortable Sofa in the House for starters. Nofor 10days.
After the orientation period, I mentioned above, your re-education shall commence pror-pror-ly.

Ah, a feminist has shown up - awesome... I return to ROM...

Balo · May 27, 2009 , 08:35 PM

Originally Posted by NextLevel

I know it's less than 30 minutes since you wrote this but where are the feminists? Soul Sista must be pretty busy...

Maybe because NVS women are real women, not so.

liloldlady · May 27, 2009 , 08:55 PM

Originally Posted by NextLevel

Ah, a feminist has shown up - awesome... I return to ROM...

The good thing is....we are legion.
Even President Obama is one too.
http://www2.tbo.com/content/2008/jul...news-politics/

the duchess · May 27, 2009 , 09:04 PM

Back in you day heh?

Oh dear, so we still have them around!!!!!! Chey, what is the case here? shey na sake of say person wan wetin good for im body, eh kwa?

Well, it is good you mentioned bedroom as that is the main bone of contention in this whole matter.

emj · May 27, 2009 , 09:04 PM

Originally Posted by Balo

Ehen is that so? Young women of today, dem don spoil finish. Back in my days when women were women and knew their position eg kitchen and bedroom, all these sort of talk was unheard of.

Eherm excuze me...in this day and age that some men have learnt to ask for proper direction and know better...u are here making this type of turai kai/strong head comment....wait make i phone/telewire the women vanguard..wait o