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Does any one have any tips or pointer for me on how to find True love?.

I am a beautiful professional lady in my early thirties. I have a thriving career and comfortable financially for a single lady my age. I have also dated a few great guys, smart professional men whom I thought...

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IZONERE · Oct 18, 2009 , 07:37 PM

Originally Posted by .bebi

I agree with you but then again,I know loads of girls that live and work in Lagos with its mighty Naija male dominated population and yet are still single.What say ye about that?And they are not runs girls o or bad people.
Bottomline is God's ways are not our ways.
In this my London where people warn you that husband no dey,friends of mine have met and married Naija men.

Are you kidding me? The runs girls were all the first to marry. For them, there was no other way to survive, so by hook or crook husband must dey.

Bunch17 · Oct 18, 2009 , 09:28 PM

You pray and you position and re-position yourself strategically

.....if she is offloading the merchandise or selling them...

It is about time that we have a village dictionary to aid decipher all these cryptic posts.

At Anon,

I could not believe that you wrote these words:

Why can't I seem to find a decent handsome, smart professional man to settle with..

The above tells me that you are the problem. Your quote above kind of remind me of my university days when guys from US/UK would visit the university, get to the porters lodge, ask for the register of the residents and then proceed to write down the names and room numbers of any the girls studying law, medicine etc. You see for these chaps, the profession of their future spouses was of paramount importance. Sometimes they are fortunate to meet a girl to whom living abroad is of paramount importance and love will blossom.

Wetin you dey find for Sokoto fit dey for your sokoto. Just clear eye.

But then again this may be one of those phantom palavas......

Spicey · Oct 19, 2009 , 11:14 AM

Babine, even in purgatory, you don't disappoint

Kurunmi · Oct 19, 2009 , 11:54 AM

Anony, I dont know any guy here or elsewhere that wld fall in love with a woman(even if u be Agbani Darego with plenty brains) while her head is in a paper bag. If you would remain completely without id then you have to give us vivid details of what you have done and I guess you will be shocked at some of the support available to you in this Village!

oluomo · Oct 19, 2009 , 12:34 PM

Originally Posted by Auspicious

..and I guess it's a different story these days..
Auspicious.

Auspy, You are so in trouble! That's too below the belt ke~e

oluomo · Oct 19, 2009 , 01:24 PM

Originally Posted by OkunrinMeta

Annony,
I am looking for a girl like you. I hope you read my introduction. But even if you didn't anyway, here I am reaching my hands to you. Lets chat, if you don't mind.
Love's in the air.

Ogbeni OkunrinMeta! Te slow for your life jo~o

. I have been directed by the powers that be that you are currently the 1234th person on the chat list for our dear annony. So no jump queue pls.

Oluomo in expectant mode

Ajanlekoko · Oct 19, 2009 , 10:44 PM

Single (not pretending to be single) guys in the house, professionals with good paying jobs and good moral fibres (whatever that means), over to you. For those who are interested, I believe this is a wonderful place to find love (or infatuation.)

Showcase · Oct 19, 2009 , 11:26 PM

Originally Posted by .bebi

but the problem is Im not so brave when it comes to internet dating.

And I think you are missing out of a veritable opportunity to meet great people. Except for a few differences here and there, Internet dating is no better or worse than any other form of dating. I have tons of people to point to, who met their spouses via the Internet and are still happily married. That it has not worked for some or so many is not an indication that it does not work. People arrive at same destination by different routes. Selah.

netotse · Oct 20, 2009 , 04:41 PM

Originally Posted by Showcase

And I think you are missing out of a veritable opportunity to meet great people. Except for a few differences here and there, Internet dating is no better or worse than any other form of dating. I have tons of people to point to, who met their spouses via the Internet and are still happily married. That it has not worked for some or so many is not an indication that it does not work. People arrive at same destination by different routes. Selah.

but with the online paroles its easier to paint yourself as a knight in shining armour without the person seeing any of the kinks in your armour

Showcase · Oct 21, 2009 , 04:45 AM

Originally Posted by netotse

but with the online paroles its easier to paint yourself as a knight in shining armour without the person seeing any of the kinks in your armour

Pretending to be who you are not, is like hiding behind one finger, or someone winking in the dark. It is called self deception. The "kinks in your armor" don't remain hidden forever.

dem · Oct 21, 2009 , 01:43 PM

Does any one have any tips or pointer for me on how to find True love?.

Err...No.

But you can just concentrate on finding love first. So, date and date and be the person someone would want to love.

As in all things, you must go out and "mingle." Nothing would come looking for you in the house (except creditiors and they are ugly).

When you do all this, you should be on your way to "true" love. But try good ol' plain love first. Looking for true love right off the bat gets in the way.

PS: I think it was Latee that said this:

Above all,be yourself.

Pls don't mind the lady o. Don't lie, but don't be yourself for now either. Being yourself hasn't worked so far. Be the lady who wants love.

Cheerio.

DEM
Asst. Pastor/Dep. Advisor

Balo · Oct 21, 2009 , 03:10 PM

Originally Posted by dem

Err...No.

But you can just concentrate on finding love first. So, date and date and be the person someone would want to love.

As in all things, you must go out and "mingle." Nothing would come looking for you in the house (except creditiors and they are ugly).

When you do all this, you should be on your way to "true" love. But try good ol' plain love first. Looking for true love right off the bat gets in the way.

PS: I think it was Latee that said this:
Pls don't mind the lady o. Don't lie, but don't be yourself for now either. Being yourself hasn't worked so far. Be the lady who wants love.

Cheerio.

DEM
Asst. Pastor/Dep. Advisor

, you be very bad guy o.

Eja · Oct 21, 2009 , 04:14 PM

Balo (AKA Don King), well done..

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Balo · Oct 21, 2009 , 04:37 PM

Originally Posted by Eja

Balo (AKA Don King), well done...

Only doing my best for humanity, bro.

Let's get ready to rumbleeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

Eja · Oct 21, 2009 , 05:05 PM

Originally Posted by Balo

Only doing my best for humanity, bro. Let's get ready to rumbleeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

May Eledumare forgive you...

..

I dey go check de thread on African Immigrants fighting with African Americans - I am sure that you are behind that as well.

Will you not repent?

Soul Sista · Oct 21, 2009 , 06:37 PM

Originally Posted by dem

Err...No.

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PS: I think it was Latee that said this:
Pls don't mind the lady o. Don't lie, but don't be yourself for now either. Being yourself hasn't worked so far. Be the lady who wants love.

Cheerio.

DEM
Asst. Pastor/Dep. Advisor

Dem:

I absolutely love this piece of advice.

Na wa for you sha, o! You don't even sugarcoat things.

First palava: Yes, you are fat.

Next palava: Being yourself has not worked for you.

I would sure hate to come to you for counselling!

Soul Sista a/k/a Soul Sizzling

.bebi · Oct 21, 2009 , 06:45 PM

Originally Posted by Showcase

And I think you are missing out of a veritable opportunity to meet great people. Except for a few differences here and there, Internet dating is no better or worse than any other form of dating. I have tons of people to point to, who met their spouses via the Internet and are still happily married. That it has not worked for some or so many is not an indication that it does not work. People arrive at same destination by different routes. Selah.

Eh, Showcase,I think the advice is for AV.
Im sure u r right but its just not for me.The way my mind works sometimes,I could win an oscar for horror movie writing.
@Dem,u r very wuked!

Vade Mecum · Oct 21, 2009 , 07:06 PM

Originally Posted by dem

Err...No.

But you can just concentrate on finding love first. So, date and date and be the person someone would want to love.

As in all things, you must go out and "mingle." Nothing would come looking for you in the house (except creditiors and they are ugly).

When you do all this, you should be on your way to "true" love. But try good ol' plain love first. Looking for true love right off the bat gets in the way.

PS: I think it was Latee that said this:
Pls don't mind the lady o. Don't lie, but don't be yourself for now either. Being yourself hasn't worked so far. Be the lady who wants love.

Cheerio.

DEM
Asst. Pastor/Dep. Advisor

Pastor DEM,

I am really very impressed with your efforts in the service of our dear village.

With a capable hand like you advising and counselling villagers; I can now embark on my long overdue vacation.

Watch out and pray against wolves in sheep clothing.

Do not fall into temptation.

Do not be derailed by the three Ws: Wine, Women and Wealth

Fast and pray always

Always study the word and deliver same diligently

Always advise villagers seeking love to be themselves; for pretending to be someone else, to win the love of a gullible person, is tantamount to fraud. That would be comparable to building a house, I mean building a marriage on sand. When the elements blast forth, the project would collapse; because it lacked a proper and solid foundation, ab initio.

Keep up the good work

V.M.

Iye · Oct 21, 2009 , 07:48 PM

Originally Posted by Vade Mecum

Pastor DEM,

I am really very impressed with your efforts in the service of our dear village.

With a capable hand like you advising and counselling villagers; I can now embark on my long overdue vacation.

Watch out and pray against wolves in sheep clothing.

Do not fall into temptation.

Do not be derailed by the three Ws: Wine, Women and Wealth

Fast and pray always

Always study the word and deliver same diligently

Keep up the good work

V.M.

Pastor VM if you leave your church in the hand of Dem.....by the time you get back, all that will be left of it will the alter being used as a bar table….

dem · Oct 22, 2009 , 09:12 AM

Originally Posted by Iye

Pastor VM if you leave your church in the hand of Dem.....by the time you get back, all that will be left of it will the alter being used as a bar table….

HA! Excellent!!