Must you and your wife work? If so, must both of you leave home to earn a living?
Bros Uwaa,
I agree with you that it is not a must that the couple work and that they must not leave the home to make a living BUT it is different strokes for different folks.my wife and i work and we both have to leave home to make a living and if i had a choice in the matter one of us would definitely sit at home to take care of affairs (preferably me). The economic climate is just too harsh in present day naija and we both have to pull resources to take care of the kid.
The househelp/housemaid/nanny issue is a touchy one and only prayers can help out in the situation.My wife got an househelp from an agency (we even paid agency fees!) and i still cannot leave the child alone with her.i have to take him to a daycare center near my office everyday(you don't wanna hear the exorbitant fees)
Sylvester, thanks for bringing this topic up.