Originally Posted by Vade Mecum 
She was neither tall nor good looking and she had tribal marks!
To a lot of people, tribal marks don't make you ugly. You could be without tribal marks and still not be good looking/attractive.
Originally Posted by Vade Mecum The words beauty and ugly have advantages and disadvantages. A beautiful lady is advantaged in the area of looks but there are areas of disadvantages in her life that can destroy the advantages. Ugliness is also a disadvantage in the area of looks but there are advantages that the ugly may possess that can cover up for the disadvantages in her looks. But one should not celebrate others and look down on oneself. We celebrate strength, not weakness.
Whatever happened to the time tested saying, "All in the eyes of the beholder, beauty is"? Our definition of beauty certainly varies.
Originally Posted by Vade Mecum I have observed the following states of mind that can make people unattractive…
*Heart filled with anger
*Heart filled with pride
*Heart filled with unforgiveness
*An unwise heart
Nice observations. I can't fault them. A lot of attractive ladies get carried away by it to the point of being snobbish to potential friends and suitors. Much later, they realize this error and try to make up for it, but it is usually when the men don't gravitate to them anymore.
Anger is a terrible thing and a relationship killer. You can write a book on the effect of anger in relationships. It is a turn off for most people. No one wants to spend the rest of their lifetime with an angry person. We all get angry as the case demands but anyone who cannot contain their anger is a danger to everyone else, especially their SOs.
Originally Posted by Vade Mecum A beautiful face with a dull brain is valued little.
I won't contest that either. But by far, I think the most important asset a person can have is pleasant personality built on love for God.