Ok...yes I mean for us.......what an Oyinbo pessin uses on her hair may not necessarily work for you. So what hair products have you used over time that has proven essential to your hair regimen? Ok..here goes some of mine, I love braids a lot and even had no other choice since I moved to Houston because of the heat....so I use this hair cream I bought in Naija called Damatol........men that stuff grows your hair and prevents dandruff big time. I also use TOP BRASS ZP-11 ANTI-DANDRUFF HAIR GROOM .....Men I love this stuff........ I also loved Organic Root Stimulator Olive Oil Relaxer...as an Ijebu woman, I found somewhere where I buy it for $4.99 a box. I just don't relax my hair often.....12 months in a year equals to 4 retouches / touch ups. No need to over process your hair. I also use Profectiv Break Free Leave-In Strengthener. I use it post relaxer and I tell you, my hair doesn't break. To keep my ends fabulous, I use Profectiv Healthy ends I also use witchazel or Sea breeze astringent weekly to keep my scalp clean when I have braids on. Ok..let's get the ball rolling. Don't hesitate to share.