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Discussion in 'Lounge' started by Magic, May 21, 2015.
Chei, you dis woman!
You were just a common mistress live with it!!!!
I hate women like these who love playing the
victim. That is if this story is true.
How any right thinking woman will let herself be
impregnated when she is not married is beyond
belief and utter stupidity!!!
Very unfair comment sir. This is the reality in our country and in Africa. I only blame her for not improving herself with such abundant opportunity.
A 30 year mistress-ship and she came away with nothing. I thought Nigerian babes were far sharper than this. The Emir had at "least"4 wives, at "least" 16 concubines and at "least" 60 children! She should have realised that she was just an item on the monthly distribution list and sorted herself out. Now someone else is managing the list and she has been prioritised out - I feel sorry for the children, as this is no fault of their own..
Why can't she get a job or start trading?
Na wa for her o, a few pieces of gold jewellery will set her up in a small business abi is she angling to be Sanusi's mistress?
At what age? Getting a job or even trading demand some prettiness on a woman's part. Please do not laugh at ladies not as pretty as you nah. Men hate bukateria full of ugly women and hosts. I heard that in other countries, waitresses sell in short pants and bra
The mistress was just a dumbo!
The skinflint Emir was so rich he '"forgot N20m"' in a dormant account in a Nigerian bank which his account officer, a lady quietly looted and is now facing the music in court.
@Magic: Na pizza you wan buy for eatery or"' ÿam"'
It is not an unfair statement women like her it would have been better if
she was barren. What kind of values did her parents teach her.
I am tired of Nigerians and Africans always blaming the state of affairs for
their bad choices. As a woman good looks and ikebe can only take you so
far and when you decide to sleep with a man and even worse bare children
for him she is signing the death warrant of that child to a potential life
of misery. Many countries are worse than Nigeria the women on average still
value themselves and uphold their dignity.
The saying how you make your bed is how you will lay on it immediately springs
to mind. Most Nigerian women are so devoid of any sense of morality it is a miracle
they find men to marry them let alone even sleep with them.
As my aunty used to say if you are a part time woman to a man do not cry foul when his
full time woman his wife gets all the spoils. Our society is morally sick, I am so glad I have
no children!!!!! How any woman can openly and decide to be with a man that is married is
is just NOT RIGHT, even worse when they do find out let us say they genuinely did not know
instead of breaking free they continue to wallow in serious MORTAL SIN and then bemoan their
Ms. Momoh herself is product of the type of environment she romanticized in Kano. Her father, the late Otaru of Auchi get am for flenty flenty women. Walai! She made a terrible mistake years back by not demanding from the late Emir a future insurance plan like school or business as already suggested one commenter. After all Aisha Buhari tefi (went) ABU after she marry am for Major General Mohammadu Buhari. Can't Lamido Sanusi help her out? It won't be easy for her to return to Auchi. Allah o! For many years, the late Emir of Kano Ado Bayero was raked in N2m every month from each of the 44 local government areas of Kano State. That was a lot of kudi, ego, owo, ekehi money. Damn! Ms Momoh made a terrible mistake. She failed to factor in what her life and that of her children would become when the Emir Bayero is no more.
Were the children not included and provided for in the late Emir's will? Since its an open secret that she was the late Emir's msitress, she should approach the family for help.
She can start selling ankara fabrics and that doesn't require a pretty face
She's just a lazy woman who is used to living off her sugar grand-daddy. Running to the press with her story won't solve her problem.
Honestly, I find it hard to believe Africans can be this harsh on this poor lady. Nobody has accused her of being disloyal, ashewo or a vagabond. If she had wanted that much from the Emir before he died, some people could have accused her of being greedy and waiting for the man's demise. Our ladies are even harsher, all this oyinbo ladies.
Where is the blame for the Emir that did not provide for each and everyone of his children? If she was a "little young thang", walahi Sanusi could have knacked her tire. Women hard on women sha.
No wonder, a friend of mine told me he was so crazy about this girl; she asked him to include her in his will in case she got pregnant! A will just for a piece of ass?
I hope they send her packing. Did the emir approach her family to request her hand in marriage?
Some Nigerian women never learn......I dey laugh.
I agree with your comment 100%. She is lazy and still expecting the high life.
Anyway I hope her kiss 'n' tell story money will help the scarlet woman. No do
no do she will find another married man and lament her plight when dumped.
I hope she knows age and her chequered past is not in her favour!!!!
She brought it upon herself and I think if more Nigerian women condemned
scarlet women like her we could have some semblance of a decent society.
How any woman can be so DAFT to open her legs and the dire consequences
to come if an illegitimate child is born is quite extraordinarily.
I agree 100% here with Madam Sisi,....city girl. This woman is obviously dim witted. Lol!
Probably poor intellect too, or lazy mind as you may call it ?
Also I agree with Bros Ani... and share the sentiment that the woman is seriously lacking in morals... or bankrupt in that regards, and have no sense of self respect or dignity. By now, or long ago she should have known what she signed for, what her status and prospects in social standing in the society will be like. After all she just bore some illegitimate children to the Emir of Kano....whom probably before her relationship with him have had other worthy heirs, people and children to inherit him and pass on bulk of his legacies to.
So, why would she just fold her hands and be begging, looking for benevolence from the Emir and his family or depend on "charity" as a means of survival ??? Considering what and who the Emir is, can't she have set up herself well? established herself and children through other means, (like have a career job, successful business or some other form of independence and self sustenance) as apparently she was inclined or have decided to remain on that being a mistress status (route) for life or to share attachment with the Emir of Kano and his family forever.
It is not all mistresses, courtesans or the kept women that value or depend forever on the goodwill out of a relationship with a man!!!
The clever ones move on....sharp, with children or no children involved into better things and other more serious and stable prospect in future for them.
This is just a dumb(o) woman... as somebody already said here...IMHO.
Anywayz....it is in their culture to be so? abi na dem generational beggars or almajirinci
Also I forgot to mention we Nigerian men also have to harbour some
proportion of the blame as to why most our women are lacking in
morals. As my uncle will say na we men dey spoil them and then leave
them destitute. I pity the children of these unholy acts!!!!!
It really beats me why this woman decided to remain on handout for 30 years. As per the Bayero, he has no blames; his religion permits him to have as many mistresses as he likes; in doubt ask the Prophet Mohammed(Peace of Allah be on him) how many he had during his life time.
The reason we are still catching up (never will) is because we always judge ourselves with others std. Is Mohammed or Jesus a member of our community in Africa? A man, an African for that matter went on a screwing spree without providing for his children, we are here blaming a woman for not being cunning enough to get her share from him before he died.
What you do not understand is that the women here are mad at her for being foolish and allowing men to get away with murder abi na suicide she wan do.
In Africa we do not treat women from good homes lika that. Even street women have sympathizers if you treat them shabbily. How many dirty rich men allow their wives to work? Abi you think say City Girl and M.Akoka go work if abi rich filthy man? May be for charities.
Yes, I have absolutely no empathy for her not because she's a professional mistress but because she's an adult who is refusing to take charge of her own life. Since the late Emir is her meal ticket she can decide to follow him to the great beyond.
It is extremely wrong of Emir Ado Bayero not to provide for his children born on the other side of the blanket, but he's dead, she's alive, what does she plan to do?
Which one is scarlet woman? Are we back in the 15th century?
Scarlet woman ko, purple girl ni