Married but single

[peterosa]

She is married with two kids but single because her husband has another woman he calls a wife. One week with her, one week with the second wife, one week in lagos and one week in abuja.

what is she supposed to do?
does she engage in an extra marital affair?
go for divorce?


WOMEN WHAT WILL YOU PEOPLE SUGEST SHE DOES?:

[morenike]

POC, she is not single. single mothers do not have a husband around them every other week. Many couples live miles apart due to work and other things, and see each other less than every other week. This has not made them to suddenly become single men or women or give them a right or an excuse to engage in extramarital affairs. If this woman is religious and fears she may be tempted to have extramarital affairs, its better she gets a divorce.

[Soul Sista]

Peterosa:

What do you mean what is she supposed to do? How about killing the other woman, either directly or by remote control? That will take care of the situation, won't it? She is a polygamous wife. Either she remains polygamous or she gets out and gets a man of her own. Personally, I don't think that polygamous men are entitled to faithful wives. But, hey, if that is the kind of marriage you are in, so long as no one is forcing you to remain in it, na your kaya be dat. As she made her bed, she should lie on it. Abeg, make we hear word!

Soul Sista a/k/a Soul Sizzling

[liloldlady]

This one is not a problem.
The man will soon be dead. With that kind of schedule, I bet nobody is loving toward him, let alone give him peace.

She needs to keep her eyes and ears open. He will soon keel over. then all her worries will be over.

BTW if she is this miserable, what is she still doing there? I thought folks had only one life and should always make the best of it.

If she loves him, stay(using only condoms of course if still interested. She has had kids thank God) If not divorce him and move on with her life.

Simple.

Life has no guarantees. You never know how to handle situations till you are faced with them. All you can do prior to that is speculate.

It is often difficult to sever relationships if what holds you together is greater than what seperates you.

Personally, my decisions would be based on how I feel about the dude and what I have at stake.

[rina]

Originally Posted by peterosa

She is married with two kids but single because her husband has another woman he calls a wife. One week with her, one week with the second wife, one week in lagos and one week in abuja.

what is she supposed to do?
does she engage in an extra marital affair?
go for divorce?


WOMEN WHAT WILL YOU PEOPLE SUGEST SHE DOES?:

Bros, which of the shes enter house first.

[peterosa]

Originally Posted by rina

Bros, which of the shes enter house first.

I will try and ask who came first.