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Is It Beyond Pardon?
Aug 28, 2009 By Bridget Amaraegbu ( bridgyfree@yahoo.com)  Portia Yamahan
The first thing Rita told James when she noticed what she thought was just a mere fling between the two was fast developing into a full blown relationship was the story of how she was raped in her junior class in secondary school. The product of that unwanted pregnancy, a fifteen- year old SSS 1 student, was living with her parents.
But James didn’t show any sign of worry. Instead, he not only asked her hand in marriage but insisted that the girl be brought under their wing, at least, to give her some parental care, as he put it.
How Rita wished she never allowed that to happen! Two years have gone by since the day she walked away from what she called her dream marriage. She had taken the decision to walk away after she caught her husband in bed with her daughter. And to further rub insult into her injured pride, her husband of four years had stood calmly from her matrimonial bed to announce that her daughter, was as a matter of fact, carrying his baby.
She had woken up the next morning in a hospital. If it were you, what would you have done?
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Originally Posted by nigerdelta666  What would you do if your husband impregnates your daughter?
Is It Beyond Pardon?
Aug 28, 2009 By Bridget Amaraegbu ( bridgyfree@yahoo.com) Portia Yamahan
The first thing Rita told James when she noticed what she thought was just a mere fling between the two was fast developing into a full blown relationship was the story of how she was raped in her junior class in secondary school. The product of that unwanted pregnancy, a fifteen- year old SSS 1 student, was living with her parents.
But James didn’t show any sign of worry. Instead, he not only asked her hand in marriage but insisted that the girl be brought under their wing, at least, to give her some parental care, as he put it.
How Rita wished she never allowed that to happen! Two years have gone by since the day she walked away from what she called her dream marriage. She had taken the decision to walk away after she caught her husband in bed with her daughter. And to further rub insult into her injured pride, her husband of four years had stood calmly from her matrimonial bed to announce that her daughter, was as a matter of fact, carrying his baby.
She had woken up the next morning in a hospital. If it were you, what would you have done?
Eherm ogbuefi, dis story is not complete...it's a lil bit retarded u know...so he's the stepdad...hmm.
And what business does he have sleeping with his step daughter? It's not as if we've not heard nor seen it b4..it happens just as s.h.i.t happens everywhere all the time.
We've heard of big men in Nigeria sleeping with mum and daughters...and even Kings.
I've seen sisters sharing same husband even here in my domain...does it make it right? Does it look like real abomination? Are some men cursed?
It wont be me...so cannot comment on what i will do....zanks 
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Originally Posted by nigerdelta666 The first thing Rita told James when she noticed what she thought was just a mere fling between the two was fast developing into a full blown relationship was the story of how she was raped in her junior class in secondary school. The product of that unwanted pregnancy, a fifteen- year old SSS 1 student, was living with her parents.
But James didn’t show any sign of worry. Instead, he not only asked her hand in marriage but insisted that the girl be brought under their wing, at least, to give her some parental care, as he put it.
How Rita wished she never allowed that to happen! Two years have gone by since the day she walked away from what she called her dream marriage. She had taken the decision to walk away after she caught her husband in bed with her daughter. And to further rub insult into her injured pride, her husband of four years had stood calmly from her matrimonial bed to announce that her daughter, was as a matter of fact, carrying his baby.
She had woken up the next morning in a hospital. If it were you, what would you have done?
I guess this is a variant of the Woody Allen Mess with the Previn Girl.
1st.........So called Husband has to go....step or no step relationship, he was in Loco Parentis and what he did was bang out of order...It is incest-est-est.
It must have taken a lot of Trust to enter a relationship and remarry with a female child, knowing how vulnerable that makes the Child, and with the scary stats on step father molestation these days....(Most discerning women wait till the kids are grown...don't wanna risk tori)
2nd......I will determine for how long it went on, if there are other kids in the house, find out if he had been inappropriate with them too?
3rd.....Find out what is lacking in my relationship with my daughter, so much so that she felt it OK for this to happen to US.
I will still love my Child....even if I may not like her much for some time, due to what happened.
4th...After some time, to allow for the cooling of raw emotions, brought on by the betrayal and being lied to, I will begin to do my part, to rebuild my relationship with my Daughter, support her through her pregnancy, and the birth of my Grand Child, and be there for her as she goes through the whole drama of out of wedlock pregnancy and childbirth.
5th....Then when I have made sure my Daughter and her pregnancy are OK, and I have resettled myself emotionally etc.............
I will show the man Original Igbakwu....I will show him Nnwiiiiii.....I will teach him to mess with me and mine.
Police go enter Case O........underage sex
Court go enter Matta O.........I go do nuisance value demands for inside divorce petition.
Civil proceedings go dey O....to make sure he provides for the new offspring, well well.
Plus report him to all his friends and relatives..... HELL HATH NO FURY........
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Nothing of course.
An erect penis has no conscience......especially when "it" is not tight enough and the perpetual lack of '"poli-grip" factor"....men always complain about. 
See what kind of assistance I could give my daughter.......having the baby....future plans to salvage whatever is left of her wrecked life.
As for the man....I don't have his time at all......he would have to live through it all.....like the rest of us.....disgracefully.
May God deliver us from evil....Amen! 
Like it has not happened many a time?
Serves all these marriage crazy women right......who keep jumping from man to man to answer Mrs. Somebody....only to introduce a pedophile into your home to molest your kids. I will state it again and again....NO WOMAN WITH CHILDREN HAS ANY BUSINESS RE-MARRYING.....date but please....keep them away from your children.
Those who have ears...let them hear.
Serves them right!!!
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Originally Posted by Wizzy
Serves all these marriage crazy women right......who keep jumping from man to man to answer Mrs. Somebody....only to introduce a pedophile into your home to molest your kids. I will state it again and again....NO WOMAN WITH CHILDREN HAS ANY BUSINESS RE-MARRYING.....date but please....keep them away from your children.
Those who have ears...let them hear.
Serves them right!!!
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@LILO, this is me taking liberties to continue the story...what if your daughter, underage and all- claims she is 'in love' with the offending male and decides to pitch her tent with him (even if you know it won't last), would you still love her? Would you force her to come with you/stay with you(depending on who's moving out)? Would you fight them both? That variant has also been known to happen.
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@ Wizzy
You harsh o. Women with kids should not re-marry, men with kids nko? In any case the lady in this story was not married(at least we weren't told). She was raped as a kid, that's how come she had the daughter.
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What would the woman do but accept she lost the game to her daughter?
Her daughter beat her to it by being the first to get pregnant for the randy man. She should take the cue and quietly pack out and allow the daughter take over from there. She can then look for another guy she can call her own who hopefully will not play away games with their housemaid.
In the alternative, considering that hubby is hard to find, she may decide to be a co wife with her daughter so they both keep an eye on their straying Romeo to prevent him from scoring another away goal.
It appears men hold all the aces where marriage is concerned. Little wonder Wizzy dear, will not allow herself to be trapped in the institution.
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Originally Posted by Serengeti @ Wizzy
You harsh o. Women with kids should not re-marry, men with kids nko? In any case the lady in this story was not married(at least we weren't told). She was raped as a kid, that's how come she had the daughter.
Yes....Wizzy is harsh.
Men with kids should not remarry either. If anyone blows his or her chances by having children out of wedlock, or gets divorced......they should stay single(occasional shagging permitted only,...with some bullet-proof form of birth control or sterilization)....period. Too many dysfunctional children out there neglected by irresponsible parents who selfishly put their interest first before those of their kids.
Like anyone sent them 'message'? 
In the case of this lady, she was raped and had a daughter. She really has nothing to worry about since she failed to teach her daughter some basic things about life...like not eating where you shit. Or the daughter at an adult age of 19 has decided to make her own choice. Dysfunction begets dysfunction.
19 years old is not considered "childhood" in any part of the world. Her daughter was not raped by the step father...this is a case of consenting adults doing the wrong thing.....perfectly legal no matter how immoral. They are not related by blood.....in the final analysis....
Nothing spoil!
Hopefully...the child brought into this quamire of ethical complexities has better luck.....without becoming a future rapist.....prone to incest...or worse. Frankly with the unfavorable gene pool, I am not thinking of holding my breath on this one....may the good Lord take over from here as always. Originally Posted by Mikky jaga It appears men hold all the aces where marriage is concerned. Little wonder Wizzy dear, will not allow himself to be trapped in the institution.
You are damn right! The reason Wizzy has no grey hair or wrinkles anywhere on 'his' body on account of marriage....or man/woman lamentations wahala.......despite approaching the young hearty age 70! 
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You are damn right! The reason Wizzy has no grey hair or wrinkles anywhere on 'his' body on account of marriage....or man/woman lamentations wahala.......despite approaching the young hearty age 70!
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Originally Posted by Babine
Yes....Wizzy is harsh.
Men with kids should not remarry either. If anyone blows his or her chances by having children out of wedlock, or gets divorced......they should stay single
Now I see where you're coming from, your "fear" had blinded you to facts of life that people mature and people change! Originally Posted by Babine (occasional shagging permitted only,...with some bullet-proof form of birth control or sterilization)....period. Too many dysfunctional children out there neglected by irresponsible parents who selfishly put their interest first before those of their kids.
Your frustration (bold areas of your post) which I commend does not justify your verdict which I detest.
Thank God His word is true, imagine if you were the judge of the whole world, what kind of world that would be? Originally Posted by Babine In the case of this lady, she was raped and had a daughter. She really has nothing to worry about since she failed to teach her daughter some basic things about life...like not eating where you shit. Or the daughter at an adult age of 19 has decided to make her own choice. Dysfunction begets dysfunction.
19 years old is not considered "childhood" in any part of the world. Her daughter was not raped by the step father...this is a case of consenting adults doing the wrong thing.....perfectly legal no matter how immoral. They are not related by blood.....in the final analysis....
You are partially right. The root of the dysfunction has not been detected, that's why the cycle continues. What most poeple do not knw is that dysfunction, especially sexual dysfunctional has a spiritual root. It has to be uprooted otherwise it will remain throughout the family tree. It may be masked, but it is there! Originally Posted by Babine Nothing spoil!
Really, a lot spoil! Originally Posted by Babine Hopefully...the child brought into this quamire of ethical complexities has better luck.....without becoming a future rapist.....prone to incest...or worse. Frankly with the unfavorable gene pool, I am not thinking of holding my breath on this one.... may the good Lord take over from here as always.
If the root is not dealt with, the dysfunction WILL continue. As per the prayer, keep dreaming, the good Lord is clear on what He wants, no cop out hope/prayer is going to change anything. If humans are really serious about God being Lord, then they must be ready to be slaves, only one person can be Lord, God isn't into that "throne-sharing" thing.
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Originally Posted by Oluwato Now I see where you're coming from, your "fear" had blinded you to facts of life that people mature and people change!
Your frustration (bold areas of your post) which I commend does not justify your verdict which I detest.
Thank God His word is true, imagine if you were the judge of the whole world, what kind of world that would be?
You are partially right. The root of the dysfunction has not been detected, that's why the cycle continues. What most poeple do not knw is that dysfunction, especially sexual dysfunctional has a spiritual root. It has to be uprooted otherwise it will remain throughout the family tree. It may be masked, but it is there!
Really, a lot spoil!
If the root is not dealt with, the dysfunction WILL continue. As per the prayer, keep dreaming, the good Lord is clear on what He wants, no cop out hope/prayer is going to change anything. If humans are really serious about God being Lord, then they must be ready to be slaves, only one person can be Lord, God isn't into that "throne-sharing" thing.
Does this thread touch your personally?
You can detest all you want baby....since you are an expert on 'spiritual' matters.....more power to you. I love my frustrations.....  The root of dysfunction has not been detected indeed!
Only to people like you....who do not see what is before them but prefer to look for 'spiritual' problems and solutions.
A woman is raped and has a child out of wedlock....chooses to get married to a randy goat....with a 19 year-old daughter who was gullible enough to sleep with her step father and you are talking of 'spiritual' roots.
A few of your "Orikas" might help you figure the rest out.
Goodluck!
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Originally Posted by Oluwato
You are partially right. The root of the dysfunction has not been detected, that's why the cycle continues. What most poeple do not knw is that dysfunction, especially sexual dysfunctional has a spiritual root. It has to be uprooted otherwise it will remain throughout the family tree. It may be masked, but it is there!
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If the root is not dealt with, the dysfunction WILL continue.
madam oluwato, would you care to let us know ANYTHING- good or bad that does not have "spiritual root" 
have u ever heard of pyshotherapy, psychiatry etc to promote mental health 
no be wen person dey run naked for market na im be sey he get mental problem 
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Originally Posted by Babine Does this thread touch your personally?
It doesn't need to touch me personally, it touches the society in which I live. That's enough reason. Originally Posted by Babine You can detest all you want baby....since you are an expert on 'spiritual' matters..... more power to you. I love my frustrations..... The root of dysfunction has not been detected indeed!
Thanks so much. Originally Posted by Babine Only to people like you....who do not see what is before them but prefer to look for 'spiritual' problems and solutions.
Oh we see alright, we just refuse to see ONLY just that. Yes, there is the spiritual and it is more powerful that the soulish and the physical. Originally Posted by Babine A woman is raped and has a child out of wedlock....chooses to get married to a randy goat....with a 19 year-old daughter who was gullible enough to sleep with her step father and you are talking of 'spiritual' roots.
Precisely! Those are signs of spiritual dysfunction. Originally Posted by Babine A few of your "Orikas" might help you figure the rest out.
Goodluck!
Thanks, you are so generous .
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Is only a mad man that will sleep with his doughter or his step doughter,is a sin to dealth.
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Originally Posted by peterosa Is only a mad man that will sleep with his doughter or his step doughter,is a sin to dealth.
Unfortunately, it has happened. The question is: What would you do?
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Originally Posted by Mikky jaga Unfortunately, it has happened. The question is: What would you do?
MR mikky i think you are very right, is a very difficult question to answer is better .
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Kill him.
And I'll get away with it too
Crime of passion,it is called
If a husband has carnal knowledge of my daughter, I will teach him an eternal lesson .
Car nal=eter nal
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what is the next question? 
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Originally Posted by lateesha Kill him.
And I'll get away with it too
Crime of passion,it is called
If a husband has carnal knowledge of my daughter, I will teach him an eternal lesson .
Car nal=eter nal
all of them end with nal
one one
what is the next question?
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha....  .
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Originally Posted by lateesha Kill him.
And I'll get away with it too
Crime of passion,it is called
If a husband has carnal knowledge of my daughter, I will teach him an eternal lesson .
Car nal=eter nal
all of them end with nal
one one
what is the next question?
Car nal = Eter nal = Infer nal
So, what would you do with your daughther that had carnal knowledge of your husband: Kill her too?
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